Welcome to Club Embrace!

Frequently Asked Questions

What ages are the people who come to a party?

They are usually in their 30's and 40's, though we do have people on either sides of that.

What happens if we recognize someone there?

Well, realize that they're there for the same reason you are and are probably as afraid of you as you are of them. It'd be a good idea to at least talk to them.

Will there be people having sex on the tables when we enter the party?

This question is here because it was one of my fears when I went to my first club party. I thought for sure I was going to walk into this room where a large group of 20 something hard bodies would be having an orgy. This is not what happens at our "meet and greets". It's much like going to any bar and meeting new friends. People are talking, flirting, dancing and finding people they want to connect with later.

Is the party filled with 20 something hard bodies?

The age question was answered above, which leaves the question of appearance. Our parties are attended by people of every type of appearance. Much like any cross section of America, you will find extremely attractive people, attractive and average. Keep in mind that each person has a different idea of what they think is the "perfect" body type for them. The best way to be attract playmates is to be comfortable with yourself. Come to a party as yourself and show people who you are. You'll find what you are looking for.

Are we expected to play at a party?

No. You take things at your own pace. Go only as far as you feel comfortable. People may ask you to do more, and it's your choice to say Yes or No. Some people at their first party will just dip their toes in the pool and go home. Others may dive in to the deep end. It's totally up to you. (and if you feel pressured by anyone, let any of the staff know. That is not tolerated at our parties!)

What's with the wristbands?

We have 3 colors of wristbands that we hand out to members at our parties. In our regular public bar parties, these wristbands help members know who's a part of our group. They also are an indicator of what that person is up for doing. The blue wristbands are for people open to encounters - "Ask me and I might"; gold bands are for people not yet sure about things - "Not tonight, but maybe later"; and the purple bands are for ladies who are only looking for other ladies.

What if I don't find anyone I want to play with?

You may or may not find someone to play with at your first party. However if you introduce yourself around spend and some of the night chatting, you will walk away from the night with a new friend or two.

What should I expect?

Having too many expectations for a party will end up with you not having a good time. If you expect to have the greatest sex of your life and instead you spend the night flirting and dancing and making a great new friend, then you come away feeling disappointed. The best way to have a great time at a party is to come with only one expectation. "I will have a good time". Go into a party with a positive attitude and you will come away happy.